Tuesday, February 21, 2012

I'm Alone... Healthy Relationships With One's Self....

So this is just something that has been on my mind. I covered this is passing in one of my classes recently. I'm Alone... and that’s completely okay. There is sooo much discussion on why people are single, why they don’t have a man / woman. And the reasons for this span anywhere from the lack of available candidates to the fact that the individual in question has character traits that discourage a relationship. These things are important and will and probably have been talked about in my blog before... But the issue we need to cover today in brief detail is the fact that there is little to no discussion about why it’s okay to be single, and the promotion of "self" health. People never talk about how you can be happily single; instead they talk about how lonely you are... Frankly My Dear, That’s Bullshit... 

                                            ...You wonder why we have people running around with married men, people hunting for relationships, and clinging to unhealthy partnerships... 

Society tells the world that every day you don’t have someone you are depressed and wasting away because you need some else to complete you. I'm sorry I’m a complete person.... but between me, you, and my God... I would still luv someone to compliment me not complete me. And that dichotomy is one of the most important things that I have written about in a minute. I feel like i could talk about this for hours, but today i just wanted to get you thinking.... We Know Every Relationship Isnt Healthy, Then Why Is It The Only Thing We Dream Of???

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Sorry For All The Short Post, Ive Been Crazy Busy.... Stay Free  

Friday, February 17, 2012

Ambition

So today was not the best day I overslept and missed two classes, fail right!!! But not really I ended up going to campus mad late and got dinner and some new headphones. And while getting dinner I started a conversation with one of the workers. We started talking about life and he asked me what I wanted for mine, and what did I think I would get it out of it. We went from starting my own firm and free thought movement to talking about the money and how it would impact my life. This guy made some crazy accurate points.

  • First he talked about how you should never work for money, you work to expand and grow your talents... money will come it’s a byproduct of work. But if you work for money you lose yourself in it all.

I clearly made the mistake of saying that I never really wanted to be a millionaire just comfortable and he quickly corrected me. Money doesn’t make you happy but it frees you to do things that you couldn’t do without it and it allows you to help the people that you want and who needs it. The more money you have the easier it is to help people and the more people you could help.

  • He then went on to talk about his life a bit and the nature of his memories and the lack of regrets he has in his life....

Now I know what you’re thinking I shouldn’t be taking advice from a man working in a school cafeteria, but before you jump to judge he and his wife have a really successful online business and he informed me that if he were to be let go tomorrow he could still live comfortably.

  • Never Get Stuck!!!

Anyway that’s all I just felt like somebody should know what happened today. Keep you ambition let it grow and strengthen and become a bigger more beautiful thing :)
                                                                              Does You Ambition Become You???